IN THE DEEP & PRIVATE CORRUDORS OF YOUR HEART , THERE IS A ROOM . ITS CALLED THE APPREIATION ROOM . ITS WHERE YOUR THOUGHTS GO WHEN YOU ENCOUNTER POSITIVE & ENCOURAGE ING THINGS ABOUT YOUR MATE . AND EVERY SO OFTEN , YOU ENJOY VISITING THIS PLACE . ON THE WALLS ARE WRITTEN KIND WORDS & PHRASES DESCRIBING THE GOOD ATTRIBUTES OF YOUR MATE . THESE MAY INCLUDE CHARACTERISTICS LIKE " YOUR A GENTLEMAN AND PASSIONATED LOVER ".. " YOUR INSIGHTFUL ..AND PHARSES LIKE " LOVE THE WAY YOU WALK " AND THE GIGGLEING AT NIGHT DUDE , SWEET"...THEY ARE THINGS YOU'VE DISCOVERED ABOUT YOUR MATE THAT HAVE EMBEDDED THEMSELVES IN YOUR MEMORY . WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT THESE THINGS , YOUR GRATITUDE FOR HIM BEGINS TO GROW . IN FACT THE MORE TIME YOU SPEND MEDITATING ON THESE POSITIVE ATTRIBUTED , THE MORE GRATIUDE ARISES ... MOST THINGS IN THE APPREIATION ROOM WERE LIKELY WRITTEN IN THE INITIAL STAGES OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP . YOU COULD SUMMARIZE THEM AS THINGS YOU LOVED ABOUT THIS GUY ..THEY ARE TRUE , HONORABLE AND GOOD.,..AND YOU SPENT A GREAT DEAL OF TIME DWELLING ON THEM IN THIS ROOM..BEFORE NOW . BUT YOU DON'T VISIT THIS ROOM AS OFTEN AS YOU SHOULD THESE DAYS , CAUSE THERE'S THIS OTHER ROOM .....
DOWN ANOTHER DARKER CORRIDOR OF YOUR HEART LIES THE DEPRECIATION ROOM , AND UNFORTUNATELY YOU VISIT THERE AS WELL. ON THESE WALLS ARE WRITTEN THE THE THINGS THAT BOTHER & IRRIATE YOU ABOUT YOUR MAN . THESE THINGS WERE PLACED THERE OUT FRUSTRATION , HURT FEELINGS AND DISAPPOINTMENT OF UNMET EXPECTATIONS THIS ROOM IS LINED WITH THE WEAKNESS & FAILURES OF HIM . HIS BAD HABITS , HURTFUL THINGS HE'S SAID AND GOD KNOWS ALL THOSE POOR DECISIONS AND THERE WRITTEN IN LARGE LETTERS THAT COVER THE WALLS FROM ONE END TO THE OTHER . IF YOU STAY HERE FOR ANY LENGTH OF TIME IT WILL ONLY HURT YOU AND YOU'LL ADD TO THE PAIN WITH COMMENTS LIKE " YOUR A FUCKIN LOW LIFE " YOU ARE STUPID AND MENTAL "SOME PEOPLE WRITE VERY HATEFUL THINGS IN THIS ROOM , WHERE TELL - OFF STATEMENTS ARE REHEARSED FOR THE NEXT ARGUEMENT . EMOTIONAL INJURIES FESTER HERE , ADDING MORE SCATHING REMARKS TO THE WALLS . ITS WHERE AMMUNITION IS KEPT FOR THE NEXT BIG FIGHT AND BITTERNESS IS ALLOWED TO SPREAD LIKE A DISEASE . PEOPLE FALL OUT OF LOVE HERE . LOVE KNOWS ABOUT THIS ROOM AND DOES NOT LIVE IN DENIAL THAT IT EXISTS . BUT LOVE CHOOSES NOT TO LIVE THERE . YOU MUST DECIDE TO STOP RUNNING THERE AFTER EVERY , FRUSATRATING MOMENT AND EVENT IN THIS RELATIONSHIP . IT DOSE NOONE ANY GOOD AND IT DRAINS THE JOY RIGHT OUTTA YA .
LOVE CHOOSE TO BELIEVE THE BEST ABOUT PEOPLE . IT GIVES THEM THE BENIFIT OF THE DOUBT . IT REFUSES TO FILL IN THE UNKNOW WITH NEGATIVE ASSUMPTIONS . AND WHEN OUR WORST HOPES ARE PROVEN TO BE TRUE , LOVE MAKES EVERY EFFORT TO DEAL WITH THEM AND MOVE FORWARD . AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE , LOVE FOCUS ON THE POSITIVE AND LOVING THINGS ... IT'S TIME TO START THINKING DIFFERENTLY . ITS TIME TO LET LOVE LEAD YOU YOUR THOUGHTS AND YOUR FOCUS ( OH GOD DO I NEED TO HEAR THIS ) THE ONLY REASON YOUR SHOULD EVEN GLANCE INTO THE DEPRECIATION ROOM IS TOO KNOW HOW TO PRAY FOR YOUR MAN . AND THE ONLY REASON YOU SHOULD EVER GO IN THIS ROOM IS TO "TAG " THAT WALL WITH THE WORDS " COVERED IN LOVE " IN HUGH LETTERE. ITS ALSO TIME TO GET YOURSELF INTO THAT GRATITUDE ROOM , AND SETLLE DOWN AND MAKE IT YOUR HOME . AS YOU CHOOSE TO MEDIATE ON THE POSITIVE , YOU WILL LEARN MANY MORE WONDERFUL CHARACTER QUALTIES THAT CAN BE RITTEN ON THESE WALLS . YOUR MAN'S A LIVING , BREATHING CHILD OF GOD AND THERE'S AN ENDLESS BOOK TO READ . DREAMS AND HOPES HAVE YET TO BE REALIZED . TALENTS AND ABILITIES MAY BE DISCOVERED LIKE HIDDEN TREASURE . BUT THE CHOICE TO EXPLORE THEM SATRTS WITH A DECISION BY YOU .... GOT IT ...EITHER LOVE OR HEAR BREAK WARFARE
