WHEN YOU KNOW THAT EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR THE BEST , THEN EVERYTHING THAT HAPPENS TO YOU IS OKAY. THE IRONY OF THIS IS WHEN EVERYTHING THAT HAPPENS IS OKAY WITH YOU , YOU SET UP AN ENERGY FIELD OF SUCH EQUANIMITY AND HARMONY WITH THE UNIVERSE THAT THE UNIVERSAL LAW OF ATTRACTION DRAWS MORE OF EQUANIMITY AND HARMONY INTO YOUR LIFE . YOUR SOUL KNOWS THAT THE PROCESS OF CO - CREATION NEVER IMPINGES UPON THE INDIVIDUAL WILL OF ANYONE ...NOTHING CAN HAPPEN AGAINST YOUR INNER WILL . GIVEN WHO AND WHAT YOU ARE ( DIVINITY INDIVIDUATED ) IT IS IMPOSSIBLE FOR ANYTHING TO TAKE PLACE THAT VIOLATES YOUR HIGHEST DESIRE . THE INTERWEAVING OF LIFE ARE ALWAYS IN HARMONY WITH EACH OTHER. YOU MUST THEREFORE , HAVE AT SOME LEVEL AGREED WITH ALL THAT HAS OCCURRED AND IS OCCURRING . IF IT'S HAPPENING TO YOU , IT'S HAPPENING THROUGH YOU . THIS IS WHY THE SOUL IS NEVER UNHAPPY . WHY WOULD IT BE WHEN IT'S RECEIVING ALL IT WANTS . WHY IT'S RECIEVING ALL IT WANTS IS ANOTHER QUESTION . THE ANSWER : THERE IS ALWAYS A REASON TIED TO THE SOULS DESIRE TO EVOLVE . SOMETIMES THE SOUL EVOLVES MOST RAPIDLY BY GIVING UP WHAT THE MIND WANTS ( AM PAYING CLOSE ATTENTION HERE) IN FAVOR OF WHAT SOMEONE ELES MAY NEED , OR WHAT A SITUATION MAY REQUIRE . THE MIND MAY NOT BE OKAY WITH THIS BUT THE SOUL ALWAYS WILL BE. SO DO NOT RECRIMINATE AGAINST YOURSELF . DO NOT MAKE YOURSELF WRONG OR CHASTISE YOURSELF FOR ANY OF LIFE'S OUTCOMES THAT YOU HAVE GENERATED , CONSCIOUSLY OR UNCONSCIOUSLY , THAT YOU WOULD CALL NEGATIVE . RATHER HAVE COMPASSION WITH YOURSELF IF YOU DO NOT UNDERSTAND THE LARGER REASON FOR THESE OUTCOMES , THEN GIVE PRAISE TO YOURSELF FOR YOUR ABILITY TO MEET THEM HEAD ON , THEN CONGRATULATE THE MAGNIFICENT PART OF YOUR SELF THAT FINDS A WAY TO MOVE THROUGH THEM , AND FINALLY , CELEBRATE THAT ASPECT OF YOURSELF THAT SEES , IN THE FINALE ANALYSES , THE BENEFIT THAT HAS COME TO YOU AS A RESULT OF THEM .......AUTHOR- N.D.WALSCH