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the color of flesh

tasty

the invitation i've been waiting for

get the picture ????

where is it written ???????????????

almost all of us carry around this same underlying belief of "i'm not good enough " - or some variation of how we are flawed or inadequate . yours maybe "i'm not smart enough" , "i'm not worthy" or "i'm not loveable ". it doesn't really matter what edition of this " i'm not okay " manual you have , when you don't love yourself , you hold yourself back from receiving life's richest experience : unconditional love . it's like having the winning lottery ticket & not showing up to claim the millions . to make matters worst , you look outside yoursel to try to fill yourself up - with food , drugs & alcohol , sex , achievements , relationships , you name it . its the ultimate bottomless pit .this explains why so many people are overweight , addicted , frustrated with their jobs or their relationships and passing unhappiness & lack of love on to everyone eles . kids , family , friends and even strangers. the truth is that untill we fill the inner void , nothing from the outside can make us feel "enough " , at least for very long . you may be thinking , i've hear this before , but how do i do it ? the good news is you've already begun . reading this book has most likely caused you to reexamine your thoughts about what is love . and it has set you on the path of learning to access unconditional love & go about clearing away the blocks to living in a real way in your every dy life .
when you love yourself unconditionally , your kind to yourself , have compassion for yourself , and accept yourself as you are. you don't love yourself for " good reason " , such as your talents & good qualities which are the basis of your self -esteem . while self - esteem is healthy and important in moderation , it has its limitations . loving yourself for good reason keeps you focused on external things , like accomplishments & successes . and what happens if you can't maintain those positive qualities ? yourself - esteem disappears or worst yet it turns into self pity and harshness.you beat yourself up for letting yourself down. when you strengthen your self - love , you stop condemning & abandoning your yourself & start being there for yourself , no matter what - even in the midst of pain , in the midst of the things you think about yourself that are unlovable. you're also able to be fully empowered. this means you create appropriate boundaries & take responsibility for your own love experiences . this then becomes the basis for loving others ..from the book " love for no reason " by marci shimoff
"love is not an action , not a giving and receiving , its a state of being . theres only one true form of it & that is unconditional... love that isn't unconditional is just need . everyone has unconditional love , it is our true nature " tom stone ...writer

some ,luckyone , are better loved at a distance, for awhile anyway ....and thats ok. besides love doesn't know the difference

love theme : in sports , they call the sense of being surrounded by fans & supporters the 'HOME COURT ADVANTAGE " it gives you a boost in energy & confidence. when you know that the majority of people in the stands are on your side . what if ? everywhere you went , that same network of support was already in place ? what if ? the whole world really where in your home court ? the truth is at the deepest level of life , we are supported unconditionally --- even when we don't realize it . fear & pain color our perception of world & life , blinding us to the love & care that r there for us . reminds me of the expression " life doesn't happen to you , it happens for you "!!!or to paraphrase the rolling stones , you can't always get what you want , but you always get what you need . realizing the truth often takes the passage of time , with reflection & distances , you can see more clearly how an event or relationship has served you . with practice , you can learn to trust this larger -- picture benefit even while the events unfolding .
when you " sense your support" , you feel that someones got your back == whether its you being there for yourself , your dad on the other end of the phone line , or the forces of nature collaborating ,mysteriously or metaphysically for your higher good .....from the book "love for no reason "

JULY 2011

the more one loves for no reason at all , tracy ,the easier their life , the greater their friends , and the happier their times !..love rocks !!!! the universe

bella !!!!!!

an open door PING !--‏

its not the day you have to manage , lucky but the moment......its not the dragon you have to slay but the fear...and not the path you have to know , but the destination...........what a relief , huh ? the universe .........love every moment nothing can make you less