" I LIKE TO APPROACH EACH SUBJECT WITH AN OPEN MIND SO I CAN LISTEN AND LEARN AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE AND MAYBE EVEN COME AWAY WITH AN AHA. I HAD I BIG ONE : THE YEARNING , TO FEEL HEARD , NEEDED , AND IMPORTANT IS SO STRONG IN ALL OF US THAT WE SEEK THAT VALIDATION IN WHATEVER FORM WE CAN GET IT " ...OPRAH