Friday, September 10, 2010

DAY 3... LOVE IS NOT SELFISH

" BE DEVOTED TO ONE ANOTHER IN BROTHERLY LOVE;GIVE PREFERENCE TO ONE ANOTHER IN HONOR " ..ROMANS WE LIVE IN A WORLD THAT IS ENAMONED WITH " SELF " THE CULTURE AROUND US TEACHES US TO FOCUS ON OUR APPERANCE , FEELINGS AND PERSONAL DESIRES , AS OUR TOP PRIORITYIES . THE GOAL OF MANY IS TO CHASE THE HIGHEST LEVEL OF HAPPINESS POSSIBLE . AND THE DANGER OF THAT KIND OF THINKING , UNFORTUNATELY , BECOMES ..PAINLY APPARENT IN A PARTNER RELATIONSHIP . IF THERE IS A WORD THAT BASICLY MEANS THE OPPOSIT OF LOVE , IT IS SELFISHNESS. AND ITS INGRAINED IN EACH OF US FROM BIRTH. YOU CAN SEE IT IN YOUNG CHILDREN HOW THEY ACT , AND HOW ADULTS MISTREAT EACH OTHER. IT IS A TRAIT WE HATE IN OTHERS BUT JUSTIFY IN OURSELVES . YET , YOU CAN NOT POINT OUT THE WAY ONE IS SELFISH WITHOUT ADDIMITTING YOUR OWN . THAT WOULD BE JUST TOO HYPOCRITICAL.

LOVE IS NEVER SATISFIED EXCEPT IN THE WELFARE OF OTHERS. YOU CAN'T BE ACTING OUT OF REAL LOVE & SELFISHNESS AT THE SAME TIME ..CAN'T BE DONE ...CHOOSING TO LOVE YOUR MATE WILL CAUSE YOU TO SAY " NO " TO WHAT YOU WANT SO YOU CAN SAY " YES " TO WHAT THEY NEED . THATS PUTTING THE HAPPINESS OF YOUR MATE FIRST . MAKEING THEM HAPPY MAKES YOU HAPPY . LOVE LEADS TO INNER JOY !!! WHEN YOU PUT OTHERS FIRST AND HELPING TO MEET THEIR NEEDS ..INCLUDING YOUR LOVE . THIS CAN NOT BE DULICATED THIS BLESSING . GOD CREATED THE BENEFIT AND RESERVES IT FOR THOSE WHO GENUINELY DEMONSTRATE LOVE ..THE TRUTH IS " WHAT YOU GIVE AWAY YOUR ALREADY GETTING BACK .............WHETHER YOU LIKE IT OR NOT , YOU HAVE A REPUTATION AND PEOPLE ARE WATCHING ........ALONG WITH YOUR MATE .TODAYS DARE : " HAVE NO EXPECTATIONS "

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