DAY ONE OF THE LOVE DARE .. LOVE IS PATIENT

LOVE WORKS . IT IS LIFE'S MOST POWERFUL MOTIVATOR AND HAS FAR GREATER DEPTH AND MEANING THAN MOST PEOPLE REALIZE .IT ALWAYS DOES WHAT IS BEST FOR OTHERS AND CAN EMPOWER US TO FACE THE GREATEST OF PROBLEM . WE ARE BORN WITH A LIFELONG THRIST FOR LOVE . OUR HEARTS DESPERATELY NEED IT LIKE OUR LUNGS NEED OXYGEN . LOVE CHANGES OUR MOTIVATION FOR LIVING. RELATIONSHIPS BECOME MEANINGFUL WITH IT . NO PARTNERSHIP IS SUCCESSFUL WITH OUT IT . LOVE IS BUILT ON TWO PILLARS THAT BST DEFINE WHAT IT IS . THOSE PILLARS ARE PATIENCE AND KINDNESS . ALL OTHER CHARACTERISTIC'S OF LOVE ARE EXTENSIONS OF THES TWO ATTRIBUTES . AND THAT 'S WHERE YOUR DARE WILL BEGIN . WITH PATIENCE . LOVE WILL INSPIRE YOU TO BECOME A PATIENT PERSON. WHEN YOU CHOOSE TO BE PATIENT , YOU RESPOND IN A POSITIVE WAY TO A NEGATIVE SITUATION . YOU ARE SLOW TO ANGER . YOU CHOOSE TO HAVE A LONG FUSE INSTEAD OF A QUICK TEMPER . RATHER THAN BEING RESTLESS AND DEMANDING LOVE HELPS YOU SETTLE DOWN AND BEGIN EXTENDING MERCY TO THOSE AROUND YOU . PATIENCE BRING AN INTERNAL CALM DURING AN EXTERNAL STORM.NO ONE LIKES TO BE AROUND AN IMPATIENT PERSON . IT CAUSES YOU TO OVERREACT IN ANGRY , FOOLISH , AND REGRETABLE WAYS . THE IRONY OF ANGER TOWARD A WRONGFUL ACTION IS THAT IT SPWNS NEW WRONGS OF IT'S OWN. ANGER ALMOST NEVEVER MAKES THINGS BETTER . IN FACT , IT USUALLY GENERATES ADDITIONAL PROBLEMS . BUT PATIENCE STOPS PROBLEMS IN THEIR TRACKS . MORE THAN BITING YOUR LIP , MORE THAN CLAPPING YOUR HAND OVER YOUR MOUTH , PATIENCE IS A DEEP BREATH . IT CLEARS THE AIR . IT STOPS FOOLISHNESS FROM WHIPPING IT'S SCORPION TAIL ALL OVER THE ROOM . IT IS A CHOICE TO CONTROL YOUR EMOTIONS RATHER THAN ALLOWING YOUR EMOTIONS TO CONTROL YOU , AND SHOWS DISCRETION INSTEAD OF RETURNING EVIL FOR EVIL . PATIENCE MAKES US WISE . IT DOESN'T RUSH TO JUDGEMENT . BUT LISTENS TO WHAT THE OTHER PERSON IS SAYING . PATINCE WILL FOSTER PEACE AND QUITE IN YOUR HOME . PATIENCE ALLOWS EVERYONE TO BE HUMAN . IT UNDERSTANDS THAT EVERYONE FAILS . IT GIVES YOU THE ABILITY TO HOLD ON DURING TOUGH TIMES IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP RATHER THAN BAILING OUT UNDER PRESSURE .FEW OF US DO PATIENCE VERY WELL , AND NONE OF US DO IT NATURALLY . BUT WISE PEOPLE WILL PURSUE IT AS AN ESSENTIAL INGREDIENT TO THEIR RELATIONSHIPS. THATS A GOOD STARTING POINT TO DEMONSTRATE TRUE LOVE. THIS LOVE DARE JOURNEY IS A PROCESS , AND THE FIRST THING YOU MUST RESOLVE TO POSSES IS PATIENCE ......TODAYS DARE ; " SAY NOTHING NEGATIVE WHEN ANGER ARISE'S "