LOVE IS NOT RUDE ... DAY 5 OF THE LOVE DARE

NOTHING IRRIATES OTHERS AS QUICKLY AS BEING RUDE . RUDESNESS IS UNNECESSARILY SAYING OR DOING THINGS THAT ARE UNPLEASANT FOR ANOTHER PERSON TO BE AROUND . TO BE RUDE IS TO ACT UNBECOMING , EMBRASSING OR IRRIRATING . IN A PARTNERSHIP , THIS COULD BE A FOUL MOUTH OR YELLING AT THE OTHER PERSON . HOWEVER YOU LOOK AT IT , NO ONE ENJOYS BEING AROUND A RUDE PERSON . RUDE BEHAVIOR MAY SEEM INSIGNIFICANT TO THE PERSON DOING IT , BUT IT'S UNPLEASANT TO THOSE ON THE RECEIVING END . AS ALWAYS LOVE HAS SOMETHING TO SAY ABOUT THIS. WHEN A MAN IS DRIVEN BY LOVE , HE INTENTIONALLY BEHAVES IN A WAY THATS MORE PLEASANT FOR HIS MATE TO BE AROUND . IF HE DESIRES TO LOVE HIM , HE PURPOSEFULLY AVOIDS THINGS , THAT FRUSTRATES THE OTHER AND CAUSES HIM STRESS ..THE BOTTOM LINE IS GENUINE LOVE MINDS IT'S MANNERS.

EMBRACING THIS ONE CONCEPT COULD ADD SOME FRESH AIR TO YOUR RELATIONSHIP . GOOD MANNERS EXPRESSED BY YOURSELF TO YOUR MATE . " I VALUE YOU ENOUGH TO EXERCISE SOME SELF - CONTROL TOWARDS YOU AND YOUR STUFF " .... " I WANT TO BE A FRIEND WHO LISTENS WHEN YOU HAVE CONCERNS AND HURTS , I TRUELY WANT TO BE A PERSON YOU CARE TO BE WITH ".. WHEN YOU ALLOW LOVE TO CHANGE YOUR BEHAVIOR -- EVEN THE SMALLEST OF WAYS -- YOU RESTORE AN ATMOSPHERE OF HONOR IN YOUR REALTIONSHIP.YOU'LL RAISE THE RESPECT LEVEL OF THE ENVIROMENT AROUND THEM . HERE 'S ARE THREE GUIDING PRINCIPLES FOR PRACTING ETIQUETTE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP ...THE GOLDEN RULE ...DO AS YOU LIKE TO BE DONE UN - TOO .NO DOUBLE STANDARDS - BE AS CONSIDERATE TO THEM AS YOU'D BE TO OTHERS. HONOR THEIR REQUEST ..... TODAYS DARE ; CHANGE WHAT BOTHERS YOUR MATE ABOUT YOUR BEHAVIOR .. BE AWARE .. CATCH YOURSELF