KINDNESS IS LOVE IN ACTION . IF PATIENCE IS HOW LOVE REACTS IN ORDER TO MINIMIZE A NEGATIVE CIRCUMSTANCE , KINDNESS IS HOW LOVE ACTS TO MAXIMIZE A POSITIVE CIRCUMSTANCES . PATIENCE AVOIDS A PROBLEM ; KINDNESS CREATES A BLESSING . ONE IS PREVENTIVE , THE OTHER PROACTIVE . THESE 2 SIDES OF LOVE ARE THE CORNERSTONES ON WHICH MANY OF THE OTHER ATTRIBUTES WE WILL DISCUSS ARE BUILT. LOVE MAKES YOU KIND . AND KINDNESS MAKES YOU LIKEABLE. WHEN YOUR KIND , PEOPLE WANT TO BE AROUND YOU . THEY SEE YOU AS BEING GOOD TO THEM AND GOOD FOR THEM ( OH GOD PRAY TO BE THIS ) THE BIBLE KEYS IN ON THE IMPORTANCE OF KINDNESS . " DO NOT LET KINDNESS AND TRUTH LEAVE YOU , BIND THEM AROUND YOUR NECK , WRITE THEM ON YOUR HEART . SO , YOU WILL ALWAYS FIND FAVOR AND GOODWILL IN THE SIGHT OF GOD AND MAN.. KIND PEOPLE FIND FAVOR WHEREVER THEY GO . EVEN AT HOME . YET , KINDNESS CAN SOMETIMES FEEL GENERTIC WHEN TRYING TOO DEFINE IT AND WHAT TO DO . , MUCH LESS LIVING IT . SO , LETS BREAK IT DOWN INTO FOUR BASIC CORE INGREDIENTS 'S .
GENTLENESS : WHEN YOU'RE OPERATING FROM KINDNESS , YOU'RE CAREFUL HOW YOU TREAT YOUR PARTNER, NEVER BEING UNECESSARILY HARSH. YOU 'RE SENSITIVE . TENDER .EVEN IF YOU NEED TO SAY HARD THINGS , YOU'LL GO ABOUT IT IN A CONSTRUCTIVE WAY . YOU SPEAK THE TRUTH IN LOVE .HELPFULLNESS :BEING KIND MEANS YOU MEET THE NEEDS OF THE MOMENT . IF IT'S MAKEING THE BED , GET BUSY . A LISTENING EAR ? YOU GIVE IT . KINDNESS GRACES A PARTNER WITH THE ABILITY TO SERVE WITHOUT WORRYING ABOUT HIS RIGHTS. KINDNESS MAKES A PARTNER LOOK FOR WHAT THE OTHER NEEDS , AND IT MOTIVATES HIM TO STEP UP TO THE PLATE AND ENSURE THOSE NEEDS ARE MEET ( DAMM TRACE YOUR RIGHT THER ) EVEN WHEN HIS OWN ARE PUT ON HOLD. WILLINGNESS : KINDNESS INSPIRES YOU TO BE AGREEABLE . INSTEAD OF BEING OBSTINATE , RELUCANT , OR STUBORN . YOU COOPERATE , YOU STAY FLEXIBLE . RATHER , THAN COMPLAINING AND MAKEING EXCUSS , YOU LOOK FOR REASONS TO COMPROMISE & ACCOMODATE . A KIND LOVER WILL ENDS A 100 POTENTIAQL ARGUMENTS BY HIS WILLINGNESS TO LISTEN FIRST THAN DEMAND HIS OWN WAY .INITATIVE : KINDNESS THINKS AHEAD , THEN TAKES THE FIRST STEP . IT DOESN'T SIT AROUND WAITING TO BE PROMPED OR COERCED BEFORE GETTING OFF HIS ASS . THE KIND PARTNER WILL BE THE ONE WHO GREETS FIRST , SMILES FIRST , SERVES FIRST AND FORGIVES FIRST. THEY DON'T REQIRE THE OTHER TO GET HIS ACT TOGATHER BEFORE SHOWING HIM THE LOVE ( SHOW 'EM TRACE ) WHEN ACTING FROM KINDNESS , YOU SEE THE NEED FIRST , THEN YOU MAKE YOU'RE MOVE ..YOU FIRST !!!!!
IT IS DIFFICULT TO DEMONSTRATE LOVE WHEN YOU FEEL LITTLE TO NO MOTIVATION . BUT LOVE IN ITS TRUEST SENSE IS NOT BASED ON FEELINGS . RATHER , LOVE DETERMINES TO SHOW THOUGHTFUL ACTIONS EVEN WHEN THERE SEEMS TO BE NO REWARD . YOU WILL NEVER LEARN TO LOVE UNTIL YOU LEARN TO YOU LEARN TO DEMONSTRATE KINDNESS......TODAY'S DARE : IN ADDITION TO SAYING NOTHING NEGATIVE , DO SOMETHING UNEXSPECTED ..AN ACT OF KINDNESS ..REMEMBER FOR BETTER OR WORST
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