it is a simple yet profound truth: happiness is a choice. when you get up in the morning you can choose to be happy and enjoy the day or you can choose to have a pissed off /fucked up attitude about everything.. it's up too you trace..if you make the mistake of allowing your circumstances to dictate your happiness, then you run the risk of missing out on what abundance god is offering you. you might as well choose to be happy and enjoy your life !!! when you do that not only will you feel better, but your faith will cause god to show up and work wonders...god knows we have difficulties / struggles / and challenges.. it was never his intent that we live on "cloud nine " everyday nor was it his intent that we be pissed off all the time....he wants us to live constinently and at peace being aware everyday there are all sorts of" joys".. to do this we must learn to live one day @ a time . makeing the most of each moment.